Monday, April 25, 2011

Bring Love into Your Home - Part 2

If you read Part 1 of this series, and followed the suggestions, you'll have a well organized, and clean bedroom.  Now let's go a step further.  Let's look at the decorating and organizational aspect of the bedroom.

1.  Colours for your bedroom for good sexual energy and healing are reds, pinks and surprisingly, golds.  For a sizzling hot room, strong colour on the walls (say gold) and the opposing red in bedding will stimulate the senses for a healthy sex life.   If, however, your bedding is already bought and you're not in the market or financial circumstances to go out and replace it, then let's think about accessories and the placement of these accents to bring out the colours needed.   If you're replacing your linens or repainting/wallpapering this room, then you have the opportunity to start fresh with the right colours.

2.  If your bedroom is blues or greens, or any other neutrals, then the furthest right hand corner is the spot to put the hot reds and/or pinks.    Maybe it's a vase with red flowers - the vase can pick up the colour too.  Or perhaps a picture with the colour predominant.  Changing the shades on your lamps is a fairly inexpensive way of bringing the colour in.  As well, you can use crystals with the appropriate colour and properties spaced strategically around your room - rose quartz or rhodonite come to mind.

3.  For placement of furniture try to put the bed in the far right corner of the room, across the diagonal of the corner of the two walls, furthest from the door.  If you have a really large room, the absolute ideal placement would be with the headboard across the corner of that far right corner.  This offers a delightful untraditional set-up which looks fabulous as well as being perfect for the energy in the room.  Of course, having that kind of space available isn't usual, so the second choice is at the back of the room, as close to the right wall as possible, with just enough space for a person to walk up beside the bed and a nightstand.  Don't have the bed directly across the room from the entrance door if at all possible, offset it to the right.

4.  If you have an office in your bedroom (horrors... is this really where you want your workspace?) and this is the ONLY place you have for it because of very limited living space, try to block it off with some kind of screen.

5.  If you have a TV in your bedroom, again, horrors... is this what you want to spend your time doing in this room?   Take it out of the room, unless you promise to only watch education sexual technique videos LOL.   Seriously, this is the room to nurture your love life and love relationship.  Watch TV in another room.

6.  If you have a big clock on the wall, remove it.  This isn't the room for it.   A small alarm clock for its simple practicality is just fine, but there should be no focus on time in the bedroom where you should be focused on relaxation and sexual energy, neither of which have time limits.

7.  Definitely have two nightstands - one for each person.  As well as providing grounding energy, they invite you to have a partner :)  They don't have to be exactly the same, but they do need to provide each bed partner with their own space.  By the way, you probably know already how I feel about clutter - make sure the drawers of the nightstands, if they have them, are not graveyards for miscellaneous junk.

8.  Let's talk about the furniture properties - in this room, wood is best, and given my druthers if you have the opportunity to re-decorate, the warmer the colour of the wood, the better.

9.  Mirrors in your bedroom should not be directly across from the entrance door, nor over your headboard.   Placement over or near a dresser is just fine, or on a wall neither facing the door nor bed is also fine.

Think of your bedroom as a place for inviting love and sexual play.  Like Part 1, do a little pretending.  If you are in a relationship, pretend that you're NOT.  Who's your fantasy partner to bring into that room for a little fun?  George Cooney?  Ellen?  Denzel Washington?  Fergie?  Ross Matthews?   Chelsea Handler?   What would they think about that room as a love nest?  If they were sober, that is LOL.

Get it ready, and have some fun with YOUR honey.

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